New beginnings are tough for our naturally change evasive human nature. We seek security and stability in a dynamic fast changing world where nothing stays the same - most definitely not people's lives. People live and die daily at such a rate that it's like natures way of changing socks. We're consistently thrust into circumstances that are beyond our control and we start seeking a deeper meaning, an understanding of why this is all happening. Unfortunately, there is no definitive answer to why. Not religion nor science can give you an answer that is provable.